If you keep attracting the same kind of person, it's not bad luck.
It's a frequency match.
Most people are broadcasting one signal in their love life and trying to attract another. They want "available, kind, secure" but they're sending out "self-doubt, scarcity, please-don't-leave-me." The match they get is the one they're actually putting out.
Regan Hillyer (author of what Harper's Bazaar called the world's #1 manifestation method) teaches the shift in her free Mindvalley masterclass:
✨ How to spot the unconscious signal driving your relationship pattern
🧠 The identity work that changes who you attract (vs. who you're "trying to" attract)
🌱 Why "higher standards" and "more dating apps" don't fix this
Watch before your next first date.